Cly ways to avoid a father/daughter dance or my dad walking me down the asile?

If you are close to your grandfather, I'm sure he would be delighted to walk you down the aisle. Or a favorite uncle, or perhaps a brother. I've seen mothers walk daughters down the aisle and it's quite touching. It's your wedding, so do what is best for you and your fiance'. Treat your father kindly if he attends. I'm sure he will realize how much he has missed by not being a part of your life. Best Wishes for a long and happy marriage, Honey.